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Charlie Stockley passed away from complications of Cystic Fibrosis and subsequent lack of a timely organ donorship on the night of December 24th, 2006. We fervently believe that Charlie's courageous battle with Cystic Fibrosis has inspired countless people to register as the organ donors that someday might save the lives of others in his situation. Although Charlie didn't receive the lungs he so desperately needed, we know he would be happy if only one person was helped by his struggle. Charlie's family wishes to express their most sincere gratitude for the love, prayers and support that sustained them during their difficult ordeal and demonstrated how many lives were touched by this remarkable man. Please honor Charlie's memory either by registering as an organ donor or making a contribution to any chapter of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.

 

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CHARLIE In Memoriam - UPCOMING Events and Happenings


Sunday, October 3rd, 2010 ~ San Jose Rock & Roll Half Marathon

It's that time of year! Register for team Charlie at http://www.san-jose.competitor.com.

Allison Stockley has graciously offered to provide dry fit shirts to runners who participate. A limited number of the new dry fit racing-type shirts for runners who participate with Team Charlie.

Contact Allison with any questions at 925-443-4510 or Lisa Stanford at email: lisa68@sbcglobal.net. Hope to see you Charlie runners there!


Charlie's mom, Allison Stockley, will be talking about Charlie briefly in the upcoming documentary "The Power of Two" due for release in October 2010.

 

CHARLIE In Memoriam - PAST Events and Happenings


Saturday, May 1, 2010

Fourth Annual CHARLIE REUNION at the Cystic Fibrosis Great Strides, Crissy Field, San Francisco

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Please also view The Power of Two documentary team's blog about their time filming at this Great Strides event. Amazing! From Marc Smolowitz, director of the film.


Sunday, October 4th, 2009

San Jose Rock and Roll Half Marathon.

From Allison Stockley:
"This really touched my heart. I am just filled with pride and joy
for these runners who honor Charlie every time they do
something! And how it lifts my spirit!. A great day for Charlie --
and for Kelly, Margie, me and all the others who hold him near! Allison"

and From Joe:
Date: Sun, 4 Oct 2009

Hey Team Charlie -

Fantastic day today in San Jose. Weather was perfect and we had a great TeamCharlie turnout (as you
can see in attached pic[above]).

This is such the perfect event to honor Charlie given all the bands playing along the route.

I'm embarrassed to admit that I don't remember everyone's names but I enjoyed hanging out with all of you post race. You all look
great. Lisa S., paced by Matt, put down a smoking time of 1:48 after being in Cabo San Lucas for the entire previous week. Very
impressive given the "anti-training" that went on! Everyone put in a great performance, congratulations.

I wore my parrot hat (see pic) which got a bunch of laughs along the way. The bird hat must have given me wings because I got a 1/2
marathon personal record time of around 1:42:52 (unofficial time). Yay!!

Ok everyone, keeping on running and yes, the beat goes on...

C-ya,
-Joe


Sunday, May 2, 2009

Third Annual Charlie Stockley Memorial Walk at Crissy Field (walk to Golden Gate Bridge and back, about 2 miles)
If you don't have a Charlie shirt, call his mom, Allison, 925-443-4510, and she will get one to you. This is way way way in advaice, we know....but it is such a great morning to spend with other friends of Charlie, and it is so uplifting to his family and loved ones.

This is not a fundraiser (memorial donation has already been made for the entire Charlie Team). We just want to see you all, walk with your friends and have a great lunch at Crissy Field.

Questions? Call Allison, 925-443-4510, or Kelly, Charlie's sister, 925-443-9319.

Love to all of you wonderful people who have been so supportive and caring. The beat certainly does go on...and on...and on...

Remember, if you haven't already, please become an organ donor (www.donatelife.net) and raise money for Cystic Fibrosis, www.cff.org (note, Allison Stockley, Charlie's mother, will be made aware of all donations to CFF in honor of Charlie Stockley).

If you have any plans and/or ideas for future charlie/organ donor awareness/CF awareness events, GO FOR IT... TAKE IT UP A NOTCH!... and we'll post about it here so we keep it going.


October 5, 2008

The annual San Jose Rock 'n Roll Half Marathon was a great success! More info and photos to come.

"It was a pleasure to run for Team Charlie. I enjoyed being a part of it and look forward to doing it again next year!"
- Karen

" Hey Team Charlie Members, Great job everyone! It was great to see the orange and navy out there for a second year in a row!! I know Allison was pleased to see everyone sporting their shirts remembering her terrific son! I will let you all know as soon as I hear if we won any of the Get Fit awards. Keep your fingers crossed! The beat goes on....."
- Lisa

"Hi Capt. Lisa and Team Charlie members, Congratulations from Organs 'R' Us and thanks for supporting Charlie, Allison and 98,000 Americans waiting for organ donors. Your efforts increase awareness about the need for donors and will save a life. Wishing you good health, The Organs 'R' Us Gang"


May 3, 2008

TEAM CHARLIE at the Great Strides walk at Crissy Field in San Francisco!
A generous donation to CFF was been made for everyone on Team Charlie and was solely a reunion time for all of us. We wore our Charlie T-shirts and walked along together on this gorgeous pathway to Golden Gate Bridge and back from Crissy field, enjoyed each other's company, got a little exercise, remembered Charlie, caught up, met new folks and saw old folks. We listened to great music pumping from the music truck and ate delicious food.


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From Greg Rosenberg, Director of Event for Great Strides:

Hello Great Strides Team Leaders -

First and foremost I want to thank all of you for your hard work and the money you raised - Some of my friends (procrastinators) have asked me if it is to late to donate? The answer is NO - people can still donate to you on line or send check to 100 Bush Street, Suite 210, SF, CA 94104. This years Great Strides Event will gross $180,500 - thanks to you and all your hard work.

Secondly, some of you may not have seen the photographer we had taking candid and team photos - Sandra Kwak has attached a link below for you to look at all the pictures and a price sheet if you want to purchase any pictures.

Finally, this event would not happen without all the great volunteers we have and I want to thank all of you who helped out this year. Looking forward to 2009 our goal is to build a Great Strides San Francisco planning committee - if you are interested please let me know with by email - grosenberg@cff.org or give me a call 415-989-6500.

The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation - Northern California Chapter appreciates everything you do and together we will work harder and smarter to find a cure for CF.

and from "Sandra Kwak" (sandra.kwak@presidiomba.org)

Hello!

Here is the link to the photos from the walk: http://deconformmagazine.org/sandra_kwak/CFwalk/

If you would like to purchase any prints or digital copies, email me number, size and name of the photo, for example
"2 4x6 prints of image 0234 (or DSC_0234)"

Sizes and Prices:
11x14 $25
8x10 $15
5x7 $10
4x6 $5
3.5x5 $4
2 wallets $2
CD with full resolution picture files $200

Please forward to friends and other walkers.

Sandra Kwak, Photography | Graphic Design, Cell | 404.422.5653


October 14, 2007

TEAM CHARLIE at the San Jose Rock n' Roll 1/2 Marathon (www.rnrsj.com)
Team Charlie was the second largest AND fastest team in the "small size company" category at the San Jose Rock n' Roll 1/2 Marathon! Lisa Stanford and other Livermore High School friends have spearheaded the "Team Charlie" movement and it's been wonderfully successful and joyous. Wanna join?! We'd love to have you. Anyway, a bunch of folks who love and support Charlie and Organ Donation Awareness and all good things showed up in DROVES to the half marathon. It was a great time as you can see in the photos below (click on the small images to view a larger image of the same photo).

Thank you so much for your participation, encouragement, thoughts, support and inspiration. Thanks to all of you, all of us, thanks to Charlie for moving us in countless ways. It's exciting to think about the next event. What's next?!


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Words of Gratitude and Love

I have started this letter several times and not been able to find words to express the deep gratitude of Charlie's family, soulmate Margie and friends to all of you who have kept his beat going on and on with your support and love, sharing of your energy and partipation in "Charlie events," such as the half marathon on Oct. 14th, the Organs R Us Relay and the CF Great Strides walk in May. Every time I see any of you, I see a part of Charlie. Each one of you carries your own special memories of Charlie in your heart Your continuing love for him, as he always loved you, has certainly made my life more livable. Days are still not not easy now, and I realize that it will not get better...unless he walks into my living room and says, "Hi Mom I'm here to pick up Murphy-lu and goes home with his wife Margie." But I am working hard to learn to deal with it better, and we are all being comforted and uplifted by your friendship and your kindnesses to us since our unfathomable loss.

So I will just say thank you, Charlie people. Charlie's family, including Margie, and friends thank you. And I know that Charlie is basking in the sunlight of your love and compassion for his family and for him. You are all my heroes. Every time I see any of you, the burden is a little bit lighter, the day is a little better, and life is a little easier. And we are very, very thankful for you. All of you.

Love,
Charlie's Mom, Allison Stockley
"And the beat goes on..."

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From Isabel Stenzel Byrnes
Grateful for every breath!
Co-author of "The Power of Two: A Twin Triumph over Cystic Fibrosis"
www.stenzeltwins.com

Thank you Lisa, for organizing this, and for Allison and Kelly for their courage to remember Charlie in this way. I was so inspired by all the love and care Charlie has now and in the past! You are all a reflection of the great man he was, and a true testimony that Charlie was who he was because of friends like you. Thank you for inspiring me, emotionally and spiritually, to push myself physically across the finish line. It was especially meaningful for me to find Renee, run alongside her, chat, and feel Charlie closer than ever. That was so uplifting, to hold hands and cross the finish line in only 2 hrs 41 minutes! My best time ever.

Each time I got tired, I breathed deeply and thought of my lung donor and of Charlie, which kept me going.

Each time I felt tired and saw a rock band, I felt the beat, thought of how 'the beat goes on', and I kept on.

What a celebration of life this is.

Although I still wonder why I can do this and Charlie never got this chance, I have learned to accept that we each have our own story. Charlie's story continues even after his physical body is gone.

I am probably the only person on the team who used my CF medical supplies to pop my blisters:)...eeeewwwww. Charlie would do that but not tell anyone.

Haha!
Love to you all,
Keep breathing, keep running, and the beat goes on!
Love Isa (CF double lung transplant 2/04)


May 5th, 2007

TEAM CHARLIE at the Great Strides walk at Crissy Field in San Francisco!

It was a gorgeous day at Chrissie Field in San Francisco when Charlie fans got together to walk or run for Charlie & remember our fabulous friend/brother/son, raise awareness and funds for Cystic Fibrosis, and encourage organ donorship. The event was Great Strides, and it's the largest event for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Over $6K was raised in Charlie's name! A special Thanks to Electronic Arts for it's considerable contribution. To find out about future Great Strides events, go to www.cff.org/Great_Strides. Here are some photos from the event:


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May 6th, 2007

Santa Cruz Organ Donor Relay


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CHARLIE In Memoriam - ONGOING Events and Happenings


6500 Red Roses

Submit your photo today for Bob Bendz' project of love and hope:

"..the love for my daughter Maggie-Faye who was born with Cystic Fibrosis, and the hope that a cure for Cystic Fibrosis will be found in her lifetime.

With photography being a passion of mine, it seemed appropriate that this be the medium in which I contribute to awareness of Cystic Fibrosis, and donations to Cystic Fibrosis Research, Inc. (CFRI). Located in Mountain View, California, CFRI exists to fund research, to provide educational and personal support, and to spread awareness of Cystic Fibrosis, a life-threatening genetic disease.

The goal is to collect photographs of 6500 people: sixty-five different categories, 100 people per category. Categories include: Brothers, Sisters, Families, Friends, Sports Fans, Artists, etc. Each image will represent a thoughtful donation given by people who also want to see a cure for this life-threatening disease that affects 25,000 to 30,000 people in the United States. Below is my inspiration behind photographing 6,500 roses together with the people who care..."

Charlie's family has submitted photos for this project and encourage you to, too!


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a poem written by a dear friend of Charlie's on Christmas morning, 2006:

I watch the rain fall out my window,
like drops of time finding their way home.
Some of these spheres get lucky.
Caught on the fingers of branches,
they capture the light.
They wink at me as the wind blows.
They chuckle maybe...who knows.
But they do remind me of someone
...on this Christmas mourning.


A note from Margie, Charlie's fiance, December 20th, 2006:

"This love story began when the moon, stars and planets all aligned in perfect formation for the two of us to meet. Our spirits soared, our eyes connected, and our hearts filled with love. When you meet the love of your life, you are grateful for each moment, but want the moments forever. This is a connection made once in a lifetime - please help us get the forever."

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